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returned to vets today
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 4:20 am
by Londonlad5
Hi all just an update been a week and she has been on antibiotics etc but has only got weaker took back to vet today who weighed her only came out at 90 not well at all, vet has kept her in and will try force feeding to see if she can recover not looking good though i feel so bad is there anything else i could have done or do? only had her a short while didnt think this would happen vet says she may get better depending but breathing still very heavy vet says this is indication of the respirotary infection still there
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 5:24 am
by Mikaela
Hun:
You are doing all you can do. You couldnt have knowing exposed that baby to infection. Pleeease dont feel guilt and remorse along with sad and lonely. You dont deserve that.
I hope that baby gets its strength back and all is well.
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 5:48 am
by Londonlad5
thanks for the reply mikaela,
just had call from vet she died about 20 mins ago dont know what to say just told me mum she's in tears
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 6:19 am
by xo Missi
*hugs*
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 7:01 am
by Dani03
I am so sorry...and feel your loss.
We're here for you...
*hugs*
Dani
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 9:02 am
by Mikaela
She is flying to Heaven. Feeling strong and free. Cry for your loss as I am, but be happy for her freedom and peacefulness.
God help me. I cant lose Baby. I cant. I honestly do not think I could handle that. And that scares me.
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 12:55 pm
by xo Missi
Mikaela wrote:She is flying to Heaven. Feeling strong and free. Cry for your loss as I am, but be happy for her freedom and peacefulness.
God help me. I cant lose Baby. I cant. I honestly do not think I could handle that. And that scares me.
I have the same feelings. I am always telling my boyfriend and family if anything ever happens to Baby, I'll die with him (y'all saw how I freaked out when I heard his tests wern't normal). I know it's a selfish thing to say but Baby is truly my child, I know you guys will understand how I feel.
Londonlad, good for you for being strong and still being with us.
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 1:02 pm
by Mikaela
Baby taught me it was safe to love. Had a rough life. Now, because of Baby, I am not so afraid to love my husband and children.
Baby is my world. Nothing, not even my human child (which is CRAZY) has had such a huge impact on my life than Baby. He has truly made me a better person and I have learned far more from him than he from me.
He has both humbled me and taught me patience with unconditional love. Thats priceless.
Loss of your little feathered friend.
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 7:32 pm
by Bird crazy
So very sorry to hear of your loss. I know you did all you can.
Big group hug and come back for more.
Sue and Nila
Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 8:37 pm
by Mikaela
Thank you Sue to remind them back, I should have. You are, of course, more than welcome to remain here and learn all you wish.
Maybe even bring a new baby on board... which we LOVE
*big hug*
thanx all
Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 8:58 am
by Londonlad5
Hi sorry havent been back on in a while all.
Would love to stay around have a nuew member of family joining us in few weeks family have picked out an african grey and we pick him up in 2 weeks. Still miss my little guy though not going to replace him feel a bit guilty for getting another so soon
Loss and Love
Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 1:30 pm
by Bird crazy
No need to feel guilty. Because we lose someone we love doesn't
mean we can't love anyone else. Human or feathered. Not replacing him just a new someone to love. There are many here who have more than one to love at the same time.
Sue and Nila
Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 1:39 pm
by Mikaela
Hun:
Dont you feel bad about loving another! You did right by your bird, jesus just needed it more than you. He is even happier now.
Focus on your new baby and cherish your last one. You deserve some happiness after such a loss. Dont screw yourself out of it.