I have got a 6 month old male ring neck a month ago from a local breeder. I have been feeding him through the cage bars with a wooden stick for a month till now as he very rarely accepts food from my hand. When the cage doors are open, he loves to come out and spend some time out. I have tried to pick him up from the floor to put him back in the cage and ended up with sore fingers. For the past two days, I am taking him out of the cage by using a towel and by wearing a glove on the other hand. He makes crazy noises when picked up and attempts to bite when I approach with my hands to pat him. Is it to check whether my fingers are a stable source to step up or is it just hinting me to put him back in the cage ? I could pat him with my glove while holding him close by my chest and he stays quiet at that time. I have been talking to him every day, sitting with him near the cage, whistling him to get attention. I have waited a month to let him settle into the atmosphere so that so i can start my taming methods. Its two months since he has been into our family.
My questions are:
1) Is it ideal to hold him in a towel and pat him every day ? Will he be tamed this way ? Bcoz once he is out of the cage, he never wants to be touched/disturbed ?
2) Please help me with the duration of the training session ? And some most recommended toys ?( I bought him a wooden swing which the shopkeeper told that it would be good for sharpening the beak and he hardly steps on it)
Any help would be much appreciated

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Sujith