Babygirl:
I dont want to turn anyone in this world off of ringnecks, however from personal experience, I know these arent birds for kids. I originally got a ringneck because our 11 yr old wanted it so badly.
It became my bird because noone else had the balls to go near it.
May I recommend a cockatiel IF you are getting a bird just for your boy. I got the kids a 'tiel and they love him. Chief also loves the boys.
I have two ringnecks and it seems as if kids un-nerve them too much for them to tolerate and my kids are laid back.
If you chose to get the baby, please be ready to take it on 150% as yours. Im afraid it will come to that.
Never saw myself as a 'bird person' but Jordan wanted Baby and we bought her. He or anyone else would/will go near her so I became a bird person... now I couldnt imagine myself without one.
Us Moms have to stick together, thus I had to add my 2 cents. If he is the slightist bit scared of your current bird, getting a new one wont assure anything other than having another bird.
Otherwise, congratulations and you know we CANT wait for pics. Brave lil man to take on such a creature.