Selma:
When my baby was 12 weeks old, I too had to do the very same thing. I had only had her 4 weeks so she was still a lil timid. Anyway, I took her to have all of this done and she too resented me for it for about a week. She lunged as if she thought we were going back to the 'little cage'. It hurt my feelings alot too. It is like we had to start all over again with the bonding. To her, I had wronged her. Betrayed her, even, she is very sensitive. Also, she made it very obvious how she felt about me by turning her back to me when I woud try to interact with her. THAT really hurt my feelings. It is amazing how they can give you the cold shoulder.
Just is my advice: Dont let her win by losing you, instead be patient and treat her no different than before (same limitations ect.) These are smart birds. Talk to her about the whole thing. I know that sounds rediculous but what could it hurt, they say they have the mentality of a five year old.
And most of all: Never forget you did this because you love her. You had no other choice. Looking back, I know now why my baby was angry, it wasnt with me, it was with herself. She couldnt get around like she use to and now depends on me for everything. These are independant babies and dislike this idea very much. She may not be following you because she is afraid to wonder around like she did before having flight taken from her. My baby doesnt explore half as much as she use too. Instead of looking for me when Im not in sight, she stays nearer her cage and calls for me. It is a certain tone, like with a kids cry, I know. Try to tap into that cry for attention. It sounds (my baby anyway) EXACTLY like a puppy whimpering... EXACTLY... sooo cute.
If you have more questions, let me know. This was very hard on me too. I took it very personally and though me and India were done forever. Just remember, she wont be as exploratory now because she knows she cant protect herself like when she had full flight. Hope this helps because I know how much it hurts.
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