We very much would like to extend our small family of two, and get a small RN baby

we'd like it to be hand-reared and used to being handled, and my partner has his heart set on it being male and blue (just to make it nice and complicated;).
Only problem is, we can't find a single breeder (do not tell me to googlethatsh*it. com, I've looked for hours

). Everyone on gumtree that we've contacted doesn't seem to care at all about what home the bird is going to or any questions I ask them - they just seem dodgy in general, wanting to just drop off the bird and run with the cash so.. Anyone?