Hi Shardia
Shardia wrote:But now I don't think he'd be like that he'd just try and bite me! His main food is in a bowl yes, he loves his red peppers and his nuts, he does forage in his food, as he moves it all around with his beak to get to his favorite bits, and it sometimes he throws out what he doesn't want to get his favorite bits, them later be goes down the bottom of his cage and eats what he's tucked out his bowl. Is that foraging?
Here are some links on foraging:
http://www.indianringneck.com/forum/vie ... 01&p=69400
http://www.indianringneck.com/forum/vie ... =4&t=13466
http://www.parrotenrichment.com/ - this site has some free ebooks to download
Shardia wrote: He's happy when he has he treats because when I give it him though the bars I go "Oo Yummy Yummy Sonny" and his eyes go really small then big again, I was told they do that when there happy?
Sometimes they do that when they are excited, they also do it when they are trying to focus on an object and sometimes they do it when they are angry.
Shardia wrote:He doesn't like being touched at all, like we can only strock him though the bars I think he prefers my mum stocking him as I don't really do it as he scares me I know he's only little, but them beaks are strong, they can crack hard nuts imagine what it could do to you finger, ouch!!!!! I mean sometimes he'll let my mum touch his beak for a few seconds and he'll let her touch his tummy but then he just makes that noice I was in about and try's to bite your finger, and gets really angry it's the same what you touch any part of this body, that could be the problem?
Not all birds like to be touched. I'm a member of the Australian Parrot Society and they had an article in their journal talking about how companion parrot owners shouldn't expect to stroke their parrots. You may need to accept that your bird just doesn't like it. Sure, you can try every now again but if he shows he doesn't like it, stop. My female loves to be pat but only when she asks for it and my male hates it. It's really funny though, he'll come right up close when I'm patting Janey and sit there like maybe he wants a pat also but if I touch him, he recoils and acts quite shocked. He's more interested in watching Janey's reaction to the pats than being pat himself.... and I can cope with that. He flies to me, he gives me kisses, he talks to me, he does tricks... it's ok. If one day he likes to be pat, then that will be okay too but if that day never comes, I'm still happy.
Shardia wrote: I don't know I just want him to be nice! But I don't think he will ever be.
All birds have different tendencies but changing your behaviour towards your bird will change theirs. My Janey has been quite a biter in the past. If she was full and I was trying to give her a treat, she'd lunge and bite me. Sometimes she'd see my hand invading her cage, she'd bite me.... I was getting some good bites regularly... but now these bites have decreased. I recently had a problem again when she started some nesting behaviour but I've now altered my behaviour and I still interact with her, she does tricks, she lets me pat her, etc. and I rarely get bitten. Biting you is a way that your bird is trying to communicate something to you (eg. stop annoying me by putting that food in my face - I'm already full!, this is my personal space, I don't want to do that right now). I found that when I stopped trying to bend my bird's will to conform to mine and instead looked at how I could get her to want to do what I wanted to do, things worked much better. They're not always perfect but we're both much happier. So what I'm trying to say is, you can change things... don't think that you're bird isn't nice because that's not going to change his behaviour... you have to look at how you can change your behaviour.
These links might be a good starting point:
http://goodbirdinc.blogspot.com.au/2012 ... rrots.html
http://goodbirdinc.blogspot.com.au/2009 ... up_28.html
I also think that if you are able to get your hands on "Parrot "Behaviour and Training #1" (see
http://www.goodbirdinc.com/parrot-store-dvds.html) - I think that would be a big help for you. It really helped me.
At the end of the DVD she has a case study of a guy who had a bird that always bit - so much so that he'd stop letting it out of the cage. By changing his behaviour, the guy was able to train his bird and it stopped biting.
Mattcoffs has also been recommending a book about parrot whispering which I haven't read, but it sounds good.
Shardia wrote:I mean ages ago I gave him a apple though the door, but I forgot to cut it so he had one end I had the other and I was trying to pull it away, he won in the end haha.
Haha... Yes, I find that happens with my guys sometimes. I want them to have a nibble of something and they take the whole lot!
Some other tips:
- I found that increasing foraging stopped Janey biting me when I'd try to offer her a treat. Suddenly, I was the easy way to get food when she can't just go to the bowl to get it.
- When offering a treat, offer it from below the perch so your bird has to reach down to get it. It's harder from them to bite like this.
- I think if you want to interact with your bird you are going to need a place away from its cage to do so. Eg. a t-stand or a birdie play gym. If you let your bird out and he doesn't want to interact with you, don't force it. Try again another time. Although there is nothing stopping you trying to entice him with his fav treat.
- If you're worried about your bird not going back to his cage when you let him out. Try letting him out in a smallish room and take anything down / away that you're scared he might harm or that might do harm to him. Do it in the afternoon just before dark. If you can, just use natural light (don't turn any artificial lights on). You should find that as it gets dark he will want to head back to his cage himself. See how you go.
There are a few ideas... I can always write more... but try a few new things and see what results you get. Try not to force the bird to do anything it doesn't want to do and see how you go.
Good luck and best wishes.
Ellie.