Jealousy Problems
Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2006 10:13 am
Hi everyone,
I have been lurking for awhile and wish to get some answers for my irn. He, the irn (soon to be a yr), is very jealous over my female 6 yr old 'tiel.
He wants to be around her constantly (from a distance - see where she is at all times, likes to see what shes doing, eating etc... and I'm full aware that if he can kill her and having trouble dealing with these issues. Any support!
My tiel seems to have developed issues over this - she has taken to cheeping all day and just came off of a long egg-laying - she doesn't seem to want anything in particular - how do tell if he is really bothering her?
The irn also has some screaming issues - he blabbers all day getting loud and quiet, the only thing that seems to help is a quiet shhhhh! A few minutes later and he's back at it. Should I just ignore it - how do people teach recalls (how i know he'll really want me)! I am finding that hard living in an apartment. Any suggestions!
Lastly, I have been Clicker-training and it has seemed to help my relationship with the irn, I'm trying to convince my husband to do the same. My husband is the caregiver during the day for both birds and i do weekend and nights.
I love both birds and want to keep both birds, but these issues are getting harder to deal with each day.
Kimberly
I have been lurking for awhile and wish to get some answers for my irn. He, the irn (soon to be a yr), is very jealous over my female 6 yr old 'tiel.
He wants to be around her constantly (from a distance - see where she is at all times, likes to see what shes doing, eating etc... and I'm full aware that if he can kill her and having trouble dealing with these issues. Any support!
My tiel seems to have developed issues over this - she has taken to cheeping all day and just came off of a long egg-laying - she doesn't seem to want anything in particular - how do tell if he is really bothering her?
The irn also has some screaming issues - he blabbers all day getting loud and quiet, the only thing that seems to help is a quiet shhhhh! A few minutes later and he's back at it. Should I just ignore it - how do people teach recalls (how i know he'll really want me)! I am finding that hard living in an apartment. Any suggestions!
Lastly, I have been Clicker-training and it has seemed to help my relationship with the irn, I'm trying to convince my husband to do the same. My husband is the caregiver during the day for both birds and i do weekend and nights.
I love both birds and want to keep both birds, but these issues are getting harder to deal with each day.
Kimberly