Hey Mikaela, do some heavy research into Moluccans. They're known to be very picky eaters, to their own demise. But there is good advice out there for getting them to eat properly. I know how much you can stress over your bird's health. They aren't the most loving just because they're expensive. ^_~ You choose weather you want one or not, I just advise some HEAVY research into these- or any 'too for that matter. Spend a day with a moluccan breeder (beginning at sunup when the birds wake up) to see if you don't mind the noise yourself. 'Toos can have issues with weaning so it's best to get one weaned (if you haven't already read about 'crying baby syndrome' in cockatoos). They [moluccans] are one of the most intelligent parrots out there, which means they are more demanding of your time and energies. I don't know if that would take away from Baby's time or not, I don't know your schedule. Just trying to help.

*tries to think of anything else one can be prepared for* Because they're so smart they need plenty of toys, which I know you can provide, lol. You know about all the basic stuff already, like cages and whatnot. Read up on 'too behavior as well. They're different from IRNs.

Books on parrot behavior and some 'too specific books might be good. There's a lot of info online, but it often helps to have hard-copy to read over and over again. So nothing is missed, lol. And as always,
www.mytoos.com which IMO is a realistic view of 'toos. It's not that they don't make good pets, it's just that most owners aren't prepared for them.
I firmly believe, however, that being prepared is half the battle in itself and makes your life a whole lot easier. So one day you won't hop onto a 'too forum in a panic because your bird now has a problem- which we even see here with IRNs. But you'll have done your research beforehand and most times can stave off possible problems before they get a firm root.
I have a particular affection for the umbrella 'too and the galahs, lol. And that was after researching. Though the galahs seem to have an affinity for the floor.
Anyway, after my own research I came to the conclusion that if I ever owned a cockatoo, it would be either an umbrella or a galah. This was a few years ago, lol, but still holds true today. But I won't have one in this house, or probably ever, for the noise factor (high pitched) and dust. Even 'tiel dust can drive me insane (clean freak). I love the umbrellas because of their incredibly loving nature- they would love to just sit in your lap all day. Eat, sleep, and just live in your lap. And the galahs are just so... pippy, lol. Besides their beauty. But this is according to my own personality. ^_^
I know what you mean by far from an impulse buy, lol. My green-wing macaw I've been researching for years now and I have given myself one full year from December to get everything together and buy my bird. o_0
...I read WAY too much about animals...
