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				coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 10:26 pm
				by cocojen
				Hi, sorry this is so long, but i desperately need help.
Coco my IRN is about 2 yo, just starting to get his ring now...i got him from a family member who couldn't tolerate his screeching any longer... i assume there was only minimal interaction there. 
i have had him for about a year now and all the things we've tried seem to work for a little while but then he just starts the screeching again. and by screeching, i mean it's really loud and he just goes all day long!!! we've taught him to ring his bell when he wants to come out of the cage, that worked well for a while but now he just screeches AND rings the bell... 
i know all he wants is to be with us and he's out of his cage most of the time but sometimes we just can't be with him every second.. if we have him out of his cage and he's sitting on a perch next to us he even screeches then!! 
he is an awesome lil bloke, he talks and laughs with us, wants a cuddle and a scratch and has funny lil tricks and interests... he even says 'Cocooooo cocococo' when he's looking in the mirror!. he'll even ring his bell when he's ready for bed!!  
 
 
we love him so much but the screeching's killing my life!!
we tried a training diet, new toys, different toys, mirrors, ignoring him, covering him up, turning out the light, restricting his freedom (he used to live in an open cage), trying to teach him, but like i said, it only works for a few days then just starts screeching again... 
my husband is his lover boy, i tried to spend more time with him hoping it'd help, he now loves me too, but STILL screeches!! 
it's when we leave the room, go outside, on the phone, eating dinner, coming home, watching telly, when he seems bored... i just don't know what to do anymore... ignoring him just makes us furious!! it's so hard not to scream back at him, or throw somethng!  
 
 
funny though, he's been quiet for about half an hour now for the first timetoday!! this is when i'll go get him... maybe i should leave him to enjoy his own company while he's quiet  

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 10:30 pm
				by cocojen
				ohh... nope... there he goes... that didn't last long  

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 10:16 am
				by Joanie
				wow, i don't know what to say.  i can understand your frustration, oh my!
hope someone with more experience with these guys can offer some advice.  i only had my pair for about 2 months and they were quiet most of the the time which made the occaisional screech not too bad.
i wouldn't be able to stand it either  

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 5:39 pm
				by xx_sheena_xx
				sorry i may not be much help because iv never been in the same situation as you but i will try
it sounds like he is screeching because he wants your attention, it sounds like you have figured this out as well
could you try talking to him when your not in the room?
if he screeches for you maybe try whistling back to him
leave the radio on when your not with him so he thinks someone is talking to him
if he screeches when your in the room you could try going up to his cage and whisbering to him
not sure if these will help but its worth a try 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 7:08 pm
				by bec
				this is  going  to  sound  realy  wierd  ........ but  ive  used  it  on a few  of  my  birds & it  does  seem to work
try  when  he  screams  at  you  whisper or  talk  realy  quietly to  him
he  will actually  quieten  down  a bit so  he can hear  what  your saying
the  screech  is  normaly  a contact  call when  he  does it  when  youve  left  the  room  its  because  he  cant  see you & that scares  him
irns  are  flock  birds & you & your  family are  his "flock" so when  he screeches  coz  your  out  of  sight  try a quick  whistle our  just  say" im  here"
when  your  eating   dinner  hes  probably trying  to  figure  out  why  you  guys  get  that  stuff &  he misses  out try keeping  some veges  for  him to  eat  while  your  having  dinner 
irns  are totally food  orientated so  that  will make  him  feel  like  hes  not  being  left  out  of  the  good  stuff
hope  this  helps  you
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 1:07 am
				by smallworld
				I'd go with what bec said too.  The thing is, he doesnt understand 'you needing your space'.  He thinks of you guys as family.  So he doesn't want to be left out in any event.  What I do, is everytime before I start eating, Echo gets a small piece from my plate.  Even if its just 2 grains of rice, he's happy and he doesnt call out to me when we're eating.  Of course it has to be something safe for the bird to eat. 
 
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 2:25 am
				by cocojen
				wow... thanks so much guys... i will try the whispering thing and whistling from another room... i didn't really think of him being scared when he can't see us, thats a really good point!!
i usually just give him enough food for a day at a time and just before we sit down to eat i refill his bowl... when i give him fresh fruit or veg he seems to finish it really fast then starts screaming... maybe i don't give him enough. i'm actually worried if i give him too much at a time he'll get runny poo and get sick or something. i don't know where i got that thought from but in comparison to the size of his head, what 
is a good amount of fresh fruit and veg to give him at any one time?? i usualy give him a piece the size of his beak, maybe a lil bigger.
again, thanks so much for the advice, i'll give it a go and let u know how it goes.
 
 
 
p.s. he is a very very very affectionate boy... he's happiest when he's on us.
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 5:53 am
				by xx_sheena_xx
				i fill my girls food bowl up with fruit or veggies, her bowl is probaly three times the size or her head
and shes fine 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 3:24 pm
				by bec
				i wouldnt  worry  about  giving  him too much  to  eat  if  hes  finishing  his dinner  before  you  finish  your  you will be  fine  giving  him extra especialy  if  you load  a  bit  more  onto  your  plate  then  before  you sit  down  give  him  some  more  food
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 11:09 pm
				by Melika
				cocojen wrote:wow... thanks so much guys... i will try the whispering thing and whistling from another room... i didn't really think of him being scared when he can't see us, thats a really good point!!
i usually just give him enough food for a day at a time and just before we sit down to eat i refill his bowl... when i give him fresh fruit or veg he seems to finish it really fast then starts screaming... maybe i don't give him enough. i'm actually worried if i give him too much at a time he'll get runny poo and get sick or something. i don't know where i got that thought from but in comparison to the size of his head, what 
is a good amount of fresh fruit and veg to give him at any one time?? i usualy give him a piece the size of his beak, maybe a lil bigger.
again, thanks so much for the advice, i'll give it a go and let u know how it goes.
 
 
 
p.s. he is a very very very affectionate boy... he's happiest when he's on us.
 
Don't worry about runny poo with fruits and veggies. This is actually how it normally should be. Fruits and veggies have high water content so this is natural. It's the seed/pellet diet that is unnatural and gives them a more solid stool.
We give ours more then they can eat when it comes to veggies and fruits. 
 
When Hane began to scream, I got earplugs. Ever notice how quiet the animals and children of a deaf person can be? So I would sit right next to him with the earplugs and read or whatever I wanted to do. It always gets worse before it gets better. Different approaches work for different people, but this worked for me.
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 4:40 am
				by cocojen
				ok cool... u guys are such a big help, i'm glad i found this site!! i'll try everything u all said n hopefully somewhere in there will be A solution to the screeching... and i'll start giving him more fresh fruit n veg... is there anything i shouldn't give him?
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 11:54 pm
				by bec
				in  diet & housing  theres  a post  about  good & bad foods  its very  informative
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 8:17 am
				by effekt
				My Goffins cockatoo is a squawker.  She always wants to be held constantly and if I walk away she starts screeching.  When she does that, I whistle back or talk to her, or pop my head into the room so she can see I'm still there.
She has quieted down quite a bit now, as I think she realizes that I'm not going to abandon her if I leave the room for a minute or two.
I also tried AviCalm, which is a green tea extract that gives birds a feeling of being calm and relaxed.  I think it helped her a bit to ease up.  She's a very skittish bird, everything frightens her so I think a lot of her screeching was due to being frightened when I wasn't holding her.
Hope that helps!  My IRNs are still babies so they don't make much noise yet, but at least once a day they'll make their cute little squeaks back and forth to each other 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:04 am
				by Technobird
				Our IRN Techno has become a bit of a screecher aswell 

 He doesnt talk yet. Hes around 8months old now. I thought his vocals would of developed past screeching by this age. He screeches when we leave the room, when we arrive home, when we eat and when we dont pay attention to him. Im guessing it is as he is a flocking bird and it is his only way of communicating to us. Im just hoping that as he gets older it will subside. I also this He is a She as he has bonded really well with my partner but doesnt bond with me. Even though im the one who feeds him and cleans his cage and talks to him more.
Is there an age where they actually talk? All our seems to do is screech and sometimes he willchcukle away to himself when his head is in his food bowl but other than that, thats it. We leave the tv and radio on when we arent home and our cockatiels and love bird are in the same room as him so he certainly knows he isnt alone at all.
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 8:29 am
				by effekt
				I think I heard that IRNs usually don't start to talk till at least 1 year old?  
At least IRNs have a pleasant call.  My 2 IRNs are about 3 months old and have such a cute squeak.  They are gaining volume every day though.  But still a cute squeak.  I hope they don't pick up on the volume of my Goffins cockatoo's screech.  She's the loud one.
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:41 am
				by jimmyjack
				mine makes an ungodly screech that i could hardly call cute. i think he picked it up off the local natives! but there are other sounds he occasionally makes which definately are. i hope yours stick to the cute ones!
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat Jun 05, 2010 12:20 am
				by cocojen
				this avi calm thing sounds good. where can i get it??
Coco started talking when he was about 8 months i think. before i got him. but he only said hello, meow and wolf whistled on top of screeching. 
Now i have had him for roughly 1 year he says hello, meow, he has an evil laugh, how ya goin, makes a kissing sound (when you put ur cheek to his beak), coco (in the mirror), hi coco, good boy (only very rarely), stop it (he's only said that once). but each thing he says he has different ways of saying it too... when he says 'coco' he sometimes gets a lil bit carried away and starts going 'cocoooo cococococoooco coco co co co cocoooooo!!' then we laugh at him and he copies our laugh!! that can continue for so long sometimes. it's so funny!!
we're teaching him little short whistling songs too, he's slowly picking it up.
i think u just need to say the same phrase at the same time, eg. when you come home 'how ya goin?' or 'hello techno''. when you look in the mirror say 'sexy techno' or something like that. 
worked for us, just need to find a solution to the screeching thing now  

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat Jun 05, 2010 2:18 pm
				by effekt
				That's good advice!  Even though my IRNs are only 3 months old I've already started whistling the Pirates of the Caribbean song to them.  I'm hoping to have a couple of pirate birds in the future 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 2:10 am
				by Technobird
				cocojen wrote:this avi calm thing sounds good. where can i get it??
Coco started talking when he was about 8 months i think. before i got him. but he only said hello, meow and wolf whistled on top of screeching. 
Now i have had him for roughly 1 year he says hello, meow, he has an evil laugh, how ya goin, makes a kissing sound (when you put ur cheek to his beak), coco (in the mirror), hi coco, good boy (only very rarely), stop it (he's only said that once). but each thing he says he has different ways of saying it too... when he says 'coco' he sometimes gets a lil bit carried away and starts going 'cocoooo cococococoooco coco co co co cocoooooo!!' then we laugh at him and he copies our laugh!! that can continue for so long sometimes. it's so funny!!
we're teaching him little short whistling songs too, he's slowly picking it up.
i think u just need to say the same phrase at the same time, eg. when you come home 'how ya goin?' or 'hello techno''. when you look in the mirror say 'sexy techno' or something like that. 
worked for us, just need to find a solution to the screeching thing now  

 
Technos screeching was picked up from the pet shop birds he was caged with unfortunantly 

 We've tried whistling to let him know we are around when he screeches but he just keeps screeching. he loves to copy my partners whistle though. he always comes up to the side of the cage and they whistle together. I might have to look into this Avi Calm thing aswell. We always say "Hi" to him when we walk past or when we come home. He loves making whistle noises...and he moves his mouth like he is trying to talk when we talk to him but no noise comes out.
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 11:10 am
				by effekt
				I'm afraid my Ringnecks are going to pick up the volume of my cockatoo's screech.  Not sure how I'll deal with that!
AviCalm is pretty good, the exotic birds store where I got my birds recommended it and I've been very happy so far.  Its green tea leaf extract, so it is natural.  I would never give my birds chemical stuff.  It seems to have really worked for Molly.  I've also been changing her routine to keep her occupied when I'm not in the room, which helps too.
Here's the AviCalm web site: 
http://www.birdsupplies.com/AviCalm-Cal ... s-avic.htm 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 3:46 am
				by cocojen
				what do u mean by 'changing her routine'?? whats this routine u speak of? if it works i wanna know!! 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 3:53 am
				by cocojen
				seriously tho technobird, i know how u feel... it's unbearable!! it's like u give the bird everything you've got till you've got nothing left to do or give and they STILL screech! it's like having a baby that won't stop crying, only much louder!! if we keep taking peoples advice something is sure to work sooner or later... keep me posted on how it's going with techno  

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 8:39 am
				by effekt
				cocojen wrote:what do u mean by 'changing her routine'?? whats this routine u speak of? if it works i wanna know!! 

 
I try to keep her occupied with doing stuff, and I also try to give her lots of exercise.  A tired bird is a quiet bird 
 
What I do to keep her occupied is that I give her lots of soft wood to chew on, and during the times she makes the most noise (morning and evening) I give her snacks and treats, which gives her something to do.  I talk to her also, letting her know I'll be right back.  It seems to help.  
Here's my morning routine (or what I did to change her old routine which made her noisy):
In the morning when I was getting ready for work, she would make her loud contact calls to me because she wanted to know where I was, so instead of letting her hang out on her cage while I'm showering, I bring her into the bathroom now and let her sit on a perch next to the shower.  Its good for parrots to get a bit of humidity too, and I'm hoping it'll also get her more comfortable with the shower so I can wash her (she's terrified of almost everything).  She stays totally quiet the whole time, just making tiny squeaks, and when I'm finished getting ready I put her back on her cage and then give her breakfast before I tend to my Ringnecks.  That keeps her focused on eating her new food while I'm chopping vegetables for the other birds.  
It has made a huge difference!
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:46 pm
				by Technobird
				I think we had a break through with his first word today while he was bust whistling and screeching away. Techno seems to love to whistle into his metal food bowl. Im not sure why..maybe the sound it makes? I will upload a video when i can. Im going to try to get some avicalm for when he is really worked up.
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 2:01 pm
				by CalamariBaby
				My Zazu loves to talk into his food bowl, too.  Sounds a little like the echo from a bathroom or something.  
They are so cute.
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:54 am
				by cocojen
				yea, coco does the talking into the bowl thing too, mainly in a glass candle holder i've got. they're funny lil guys aren't they!
i take him in the shower (when it's not too cold) and he loves the warm water! he flaps around and gets so wet!
now here's a thing i'm confused about... i found a young budgie on the road n took it home to revive it, it was only with us for 4 days but in that time coco was really quiet and withdrawn, didn't want anything to do with us, even his screeching quietened down a bit, he's slowly coming back around now but when i give him a scratch (which he usualy enjoys) he's started growling at me! is it possible he's cranky with me for paying attention to another bird? is his memory really that good?
it's like i either get another bird and have him quiet but hate me or just deal with the noise!! i don't want another bird cause i loved the way he was so affectionate but now he seems to be angry with me or something...
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:59 am
				by cocojen
				Technobird wrote:I think we had a break through with his first word today while he was bust whistling and screeching away. Techno seems to love to whistle into his metal food bowl. Im not sure why..maybe the sound it makes? I will upload a video when i can. Im going to try to get some avicalm for when he is really worked up.
what was the word he said?? did u understand it?? it usually takes them a while to pick up certain words, some u can say twice and they copy, some they just never pick up! coco refuses to say 'good boy'! only when he thinks we're not listening, he'll throw a quick one in and then not say it again for the next 4 months!! cheeky!!
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:49 am
				by effekt
				That is odd that Coco got all quiet.  Many times they don't do well when another member joins their "flock".  He may be stressed, and they do have good memories.
Another possibility is that the budgie had a disease and maybe passed it along to Coco?  Have his droppings changed at all?  Birds hide their illnesses because in the wild, if they appear to be sick the flock will abandon them.  So you may want to take Coco by the vet, just for a check up.
Hope he gets back to his old lovable self quickly!
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Sat Jun 12, 2010 3:09 am
				by cocojen
				Oh dear!! i didn't think of that!! i'll take him to the vet right away!!! thanks!!
			 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:21 am
				by cocojen
				i took im to the vet. he's a healthy boy  

  she said to cover his cage when he screeches and uncover it when he stops... she clipped his wings and claws so he's so dependant on us now... he was getting cranky with me touching him cause he's growing new feathers. he's getting beautiful new red and a few blue ones now... he's so handsome. does it hurt when new feathers come?
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:13 am
				by effekt
				So glad to hear that he's a healthy bird!
I don't think it hurts them but sometimes it can be uncomfortable, especially when they are molting.  Ringnecks are so funny, they definitely have their time when they don't want to be touched or handled.  Mine are the same way; they let me know when they want to play with me and they definitely let me know when they'd rather be left alone 
 
Do you have a picture of coco?
 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 7:07 am
				by cocojen
				yeah i do, but i was having trouble uploading it... i'll try again 

 
			
					
				Re: coco's screeching is killing my life!!
				Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 7:19 am
				by cocojen
				my files are too big... i will find a way to upload a photo of coco if it kills me... in time 
