My bird doesn't like me anymore?

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Lauren&Bella
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My bird doesn't like me anymore?

Post by Lauren&Bella »

A few years ago I bought a baby Indian Ringneck (Bella).
She had been handreared and was extremely friendly. I handled her very regularly, morning and night.
She did go through the bluffing stage but just ignored this and continued to handle her daily.

Now a few years on and she has turned out to be a he!
Bella started showing signs that she was looking for a mate? When out she would bob her head and do a mating dance.
She fell in love with my Mum and all of a sudden decided she hated me!
I thought she would get over it, but now a few months later I still can't handle her :(
If I try and put my hand in her cage she flies away and if I continue to try she attacks my hand.
I've tried persisting with handling her each day but even if I get her out of the cage she simply flies away?
I've also tried hand feeding her each day her fave foods..

The main problem is Mum is busy with 2 little kids and unfortunately doesn't have the time, nor want to get her out each day.
I feel it's cruel for her to be stuck inside a cage all day. Because she's bored she's began screeching..
She is in a very large cage with lots of toys.. daily she gets a fruit and veg kebab as well as her pellets and a dried fruit, nut and seed mix.

What can I do to make her like me again? I've never, ever hit or yelled at her. I just don't get why she suddenly hates me? :(
Any tips or suggestions?
Lauren&&Bella
ellieelectrons
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Location: Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia

Re: My bird doesn't like me anymore?

Post by ellieelectrons »

Sorry to hear about your situation. I've got two ideas that could help.

1. Increase foraging - my vet told me that they should spend most of their time searching for food. At the time I was using a kabob but that doesn't provide enough challenge. When they have to forage for 90% of heir food, suddenly getting food from you is the easy way to get food & it makes them more receptive to you. you do need to introduce it slowly. If you do a search on the forum, you will find a number of good foraging threads.

2. Clipping his wings - this seems to help behavior problems you've described although I understand you may not want to do that.

Keep trying.

Good luck.

Ellie.

P.S. have you considered a bird companion?
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