You sound awesome... strong. determined woman.
YOU ARE MORE than welcome to pull up here any day. Its 80 bux a night here to park and hook up. A horrid, nasty 'motel' 150.00 a night minimum.
Florida will do two things to a persons soul: beat them down to the point they go back home (making it here is HARD). This usually sends them back home with some sort of addiction. Seems like that and Florida go hand in hand.
OR:
You'll move here, keep your head on while everyone else is playing at the beach you go make their money.

I reckon what Im saying is, living a rouchy life in Florida is very easy to do.
Living a nice family life... you'd better win the lottery, marry well or have a nice trust fund. Making an average life here takes about 250.000.00 a yr.
Thats to live in a 'decent' house. Driving 'decent' cars.
ALSO... Tons of birdshows going on right now!!!