bonding???
Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 2:52 am
Our female IRN Janey has quite a strong bond to my husband. If he goes to the toilet or the bathroom (both of these rooms are just in her sight) or comes anywhere else within her sight she gets really agitated... She'll go from chilled and calm to can't sit still in 1 second when he's around.
Unfortunately she likes to try to boss my husband around. She will fly at him and fling herself at him (even with her wings clipped) and is more likely to bite him than she is me. She has drawn blood on him several times. We try to keep her off our shoulder as a bite to the face is not good... but she is more likely to run to the shoulder when she is with my husband too. She will do these things to me too but less often and usually (not always) I am able to handle her better... However, if she had such a fatal attraction to me, I don't think I'd be able to handle her much better.
Unfortunately these problems lead my husband to spend less and less time with her which I'm guessing makes her more and more agitated.
We have two birds. We had hoped that when we brought our second one home, this might change. Janey is currently three and Charlie is almost two years old. They share a cage, they regurgitate food to each other and occasionally preen each other. Charlie does the love dance to Janey. Janey is ready to be sexually active, she will crouch down and flatten her back to both me and my husband and Charlie but Charlie doesn't quite know what to do yet. Charlie hasn't reached maturity, he hasn't got his ring yet.
Sorry for the long message.
Do you have any advice for me or my husband? At the moment I spend a lot of time with them and he spends very little.
Do you think that when Charlie matures, he might usurp my husband's position with Janey and might she settle down? Has anyone else had experience with this?
Any advice greatly appreciated!
Ellie.
Unfortunately she likes to try to boss my husband around. She will fly at him and fling herself at him (even with her wings clipped) and is more likely to bite him than she is me. She has drawn blood on him several times. We try to keep her off our shoulder as a bite to the face is not good... but she is more likely to run to the shoulder when she is with my husband too. She will do these things to me too but less often and usually (not always) I am able to handle her better... However, if she had such a fatal attraction to me, I don't think I'd be able to handle her much better.
Unfortunately these problems lead my husband to spend less and less time with her which I'm guessing makes her more and more agitated.
We have two birds. We had hoped that when we brought our second one home, this might change. Janey is currently three and Charlie is almost two years old. They share a cage, they regurgitate food to each other and occasionally preen each other. Charlie does the love dance to Janey. Janey is ready to be sexually active, she will crouch down and flatten her back to both me and my husband and Charlie but Charlie doesn't quite know what to do yet. Charlie hasn't reached maturity, he hasn't got his ring yet.
Sorry for the long message.
Do you have any advice for me or my husband? At the moment I spend a lot of time with them and he spends very little.
Do you think that when Charlie matures, he might usurp my husband's position with Janey and might she settle down? Has anyone else had experience with this?
Any advice greatly appreciated!
Ellie.